The Horse Who Wouldn't Share the Load
Aesop's Fables · 1 min read
A merchant traveled a mountain road with two animals — a horse carrying nothing at all, and a heavily loaded donkey straining under sacks of grain far too heavy for the steep climb ahead. The exhausted donkey begged the horse to carry even a small portion of his load, explaining honestly that he did not think he could make it to the top otherwise.
The horse, comfortable and unburdened, refused flatly, insisting that each animal was responsible for carrying only what it had been given, and that the donkey's struggle was entirely his own concern to manage, not the horse's problem to solve. "I have nothing to carry, and I intend to keep it that way," the horse said, trotting ahead without a backward glance.
Before long, the donkey's legs gave out entirely under the strain, and he collapsed on the mountain path, unable to continue. The merchant, needing to get his goods to market regardless, promptly transferred the donkey's entire load onto the horse's back instead — and, since the exhausted donkey could no longer walk at all, added the donkey's own hide and remains to the horse's burden after he died from the effort. The horse, now carrying vastly more than the modest portion he had refused to share earlier, understood too late that declining to help someone else's struggle does not actually protect you from that struggle — it only guarantees you'll face the whole of it alone later, usually with interest.
Moral of the story
Declining to help someone else's struggle doesn't protect you from it — it usually just guarantees you'll face the whole of it alone later, with interest.